2022.01.20 16:51 parkstar86 Russian attack could happen ‘any minute’ Ukraine official says
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2022.01.20 16:51 serenity_w Bangs keep curling idk what to do
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2022.01.20 16:51 brokenturtlez How can I accept that she won't let me make sacrifices to be together?
There is a girl I've known for a long time and have always had great chemistry with. She was and still is one of my best friends and we just really hit it off. When I met her I wasn't attracted to her but I always thought we'd make a good couple. I grew more attracted to her, I made a move on her and we started dating and were great together until she broke it off much to my confusion and also that of our friends.
Since then we've still been close, more close than friends should probably be but she won't allow us to be in a relationship despite saying that if she were to date someone, and to fall in love with someone, it would be me. She has practically condemned herself to a life of being alone, which she seems fine with. For now, she doesn't want a relationship and that's totally ok. But in the future she just doesn't seem to think she deserves anyone.
She says that her standards are too high and the expectations she'd place on her partner would be unreasonable. This isn't something I felt when dating her but maybe it's something she felt, and then felt guilty of. She also said that her family background, which is different both culturally and religiously to mine would cause too many problems that it wouldn't be fair on me. I've tried on many an occasion to reassure her that this is something I'm totally ok with and I really think our relationship was something worth making sacrifices for, even if it implicated certain changes to my lifestyle that I wouldn't normally consider.
She won't allow it. She thinks it's unfair. I disagree but I don't think it's something I can change her mind on. All I can do is accept it and hope that maybe one day she reconsiders. We're both approaching our late 20s and I'd like to think that the point where she reconsiders would be fairly soon. I don't mean to imply we'll both be stuck alone if we don't settle down young or anything, but I'd like to think that she at least would be ready to allow those sacrifices to be made if necessary fairly soon.
The thing is I just think I need to accept this and I don't know how. On one level I've accepted that she may never change her mind, and that I may never find anyone that I think is this right for me. Everyone I've met so far, I would leave them in a heartbeat if she wanted me back and it's not fair on anyone in that situation. I don't know how to accept that the next person I date or have a relationship won't be her.
But yeah that makes me want to cry every single day and I can't keep living my life like this. I'm doing the "focus on myself" thing more than ever and I'm doing a good job at it but I'm still feeling disappointed and empty because I feel like we are great together, we both liked each other, but she won't let me do what's necessary to be together just because she'd feel guilty about it.
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2022.01.20 16:51 Smart-Soup5105 Hunger
One of the most famous quotes in this sub is the quote by the famous sufi saint and Islamic scholar Imam Al- Ghazali namely: Desire makes slaves out of kings, while patience makes kings out of slaves.
Imam Ghazali in this book the revival of religious sciences he talks about controlling the two desires which are sexual desire and the desire of the tounge, which is talking.
The central tool in which he talks about for a long time for a person who's trying to control sexual desire is hunger. He talks about ways of lessening what you eat and he talks about not suddenly stopping all eating because it will be hard for you, and how it would be better to make it rather a habit, what we would call in our time a diet.
Now, for a practicing muslim, we have weekly fasting days that are reccomended for spirituality, but I realized when I felt hunger, my inner self even though it had the chances of slipping and relapsing, when I was feeling hunger, I had control of it. I could control the habit and addiction part that I developed in the time of my addiction and the sexual desire that made me rapidly act and give no attention to reason was being controlled.
I really reccomend it for everyone to try eating less even if you're not going to fast.
I might for another day do a summary on the tips the Imam gives in his book.
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2022.01.20 16:51 KingDiamond2000 Philippine Bank to Offer Crypto Trading: Report
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2022.01.20 16:51 RainbowKitchen No-Bake Chocolate Hazelnut Mini Cheesecakes
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2022.01.20 16:51 Holzdesign_Zwirner Oak coffee Table
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2022.01.20 16:51 cursed_kuchikopi Girl with long black hair, olive skin who has a talking black lab
From what I remember, it’s a young adult fantasy novel. It’s about a girl who looks very different from everyone around her (she has black hair olive skin compared to everyone being fair skinned) this leads to her trying to find out who she is. She knows and practices magic from books and bells she carries around. She has a black lab companion who either talks to her through his mind or talks with his mouth. Throughout the book she is uncovering who she is while dealing with adversaries that come along the way. I read it when I was child and it was a long read I wish I could remember it!!
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2022.01.20 16:51 Butlerr44 Bogdan B2B
2022.01.20 16:51 uzuzab My name is Uzuzab and I'm ... uh ... it's been a year since I have last bought a fountain pen
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2022.01.20 16:51 Indianbabe2627 Terrorist
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2022.01.20 16:51 GreyPercival Class Archetype/Free Archetype Interaction
Howdy all. I'm a GM, and I have a quick question for you all, as I'm a bit stuck on how to rule something.
To put things simply, there's a Gunslinger in my party, and they picked up the Spellshot Class Archetype. However, we're using the Free Archetype rule. Now, Spellshot, like most other archetypes, locks you out of other archetypes until you invest some feats in it.
My question is simple: in a Free Archetype game, would you make the player use their Free Archetype on their Class Archetype, or would you waive that limit and let them use their Level 2 Class Feat on said Class Archetype, and let them pick up another Archetype as well?
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2022.01.20 16:51 Ardnest Getting started with AI art
I've see so many images of art made using ai and have always wanted to make my own. I've used artbreeder for a while but I want to go bigger and experiment. So what do y'all think? Any suggestions is appreciated. And have a great day y'all.
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2022.01.20 16:51 Whatsinaname101 Is it worth it to report your design when it’s stolen?
So I’m new to this and I noticed one of my designs was copied exactly, with all the tags word for word. They didn’t try and resize anything, just straight copy. Is it worth trying to report this or is this just the name of the game in redbubble?
Mine is the original, shop name off-hand-prints, the other looks to me like possibly a bot copycat.
link to show both listings
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2022.01.20 16:51 ANDRADE101 Anyone have any idea what’s going on?
2022.01.20 16:51 Mrmofo69 I'm falling off of school pretty bad
I (15M) am homeschooled. I used to get between 95 and 100 points on literally every assignment I had. I had the best marks out of everyone I know. Sometimes I would help my dad with math stuff. But recently, I haven't been doing too good in school. My grades have been in the 70s and lower as of late.
It all started in the summer, where I was in martial arts every day for about a year. Then, I joined the baseball team, and I stopped going to martial arts for the whole season. Then, I went maybe twice over the span of 2 months. Once school started, I've just been struggling the whole year. I never leave the house any more. I go to church every Sunday, but that's it. All my life is right now, is school and xbox. I do school for 3-4 hours per day, then play xbox until I go to bed.
I'm always bored and it's gotten to the point where I don't even want to play xbox. I'm always 3 or 4 days behind in school. And my whole family either makes fun of me, or calls me lazy and stupid. I just to reevaluate my life. What should I do
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2022.01.20 16:51 IntentCypres18 My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.
2022.01.20 16:51 cleartheworkasap SELLING AQA ONLY SERIOUS BUYERS CHEAPEST ON MARKET
2022.01.20 16:51 cardigansandcoffee28 Why are you the way you are?
I'm just going to say it like this and I'll go into the story. Some people were not meant to be mods or owners of a server.
Not too long ago, I joined this supernatural group that I thought would definitely be in my wheelhouse. Had great lore, I could bring in my original vampire, things were great! Started making friends left and right, one of which I consider my best friend. But very quickly, the cracks opened up and I saw the true nature of these people.
For example: They allowed characters to be abused in some absolutely horrible ways, threads that they brought over from a previous server and bragged about how much fun it was. I'm all one for putting my characters into compromised positions, but I'd never do to mine what they did to others. It was unreal!
Another thing was that the owner allowed the mods to bully other members by making fun of their ideas or creations, literally tearing them down even though they would fix things to suit the roleplay better. Made one person leave because they were made fun of for being overly sensitive.
Not to mention the fact that they refused to let anyone get scenes in with them. The owner and her two mods constantly wrote with each other and didn't like making threads to help someone get situated into the story. Eventually, it all came down to a head when a mod insulted me and my friend for not agreeing to our characters being mistreated for fun.
All of this to just to vent about how much it still irks and surprises me that people are allowed to run servers who behave like that.
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2022.01.20 16:51 foco_runner Weirdest Food From Every State
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2022.01.20 16:51 Gamer_- Hikaru when he looses a game and says he's going for a quick toilet break
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2022.01.20 16:51 Drawmaster63 Something tells me Jake did something
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2022.01.20 16:51 Throwaway787480050 Vacation packing got so much easier!
Long time lurker, first time posted. Been struggling with alcohol most of my adult life (36M) but have now been sober for 2 months and luckily have no cravings anymore! this last weekend, my +1 and I went to an all inclusive resort and I managed to drink exactly nothing despite all of the open bars presented to me! But one thing I noticed the most - this was my first trip since going sober - was that I don't have to pack for hangovers anymore! I used to have a whole section of my suitcase for Advil, Pepto-Bismol, Alka Seltzer, etc. and had to always count out that I had enough for each day of a trip and usually several doses of each for each morning. My bag would look like a damn CVS! This time - multivitamins and a toothbrush! It was awesome to not have to go to Costco last minute for an insane amount of hangover supplies.
Anyway, I know it's not a major thing, but just wanted to share something that gave me a lot of joy this time! :)
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2022.01.20 16:51 karnnypicture has anyone played Battlebit remastered?
I play it on parallel desktop in my 14" m1 pro. The game runs fine but missing some scenery texture that makes you see through walls or objects it's like I'm a hacker and I don't like it. has anyone come across the problem as I do?
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2022.01.20 16:51 frontalStalk950 ALL OUT TV🔞💦